Relationship Help for Home & Work

Private Sessions  Mediation  Classes  Seminars

We’ll work with you to find optimal solutions for living and loving, playing and working together.

Schedule a private session with:

Rhoberta Shaler, PhD
The Relationship Help Doctor

Individuals • Couples • Families • Teams


 • Relationship Insights for Couples  •  Anger Management 
Parenting •  Co-Parenting for Divorced Parents

Discover how we can help YOU!

Anger Management, Couples Counseling. Parenting Classes. Relationship Classes.Click here for current classes

Or Call us right now 760.747.8686

In-Person, On Site & Online through Skype Video Conferencing

Conveniently located in Escondido, CA, we serve San Diego County to meet needs for:


Call The Optimize Center

Serving San Diego County from Escondido, CA

350 West 9th Avenue, Suite 101,
Escondido, CA 92025.
Just take the 9th Avenue exit off I-15. Go east to 350 on your left.
The Optimize Center is between Center City Parkway and Escondido Boulevard on 9th Avenue.

CK-cover-tileThe Optimize Center is home to Dr. Rhoberta Shaler’s KAIZEN for COUPLES™ program — designed in conjunction with her upcoming book — which offers private sessions, multi-week programs and weekend retreats.  

Additionally, Dr. Shaler offers private, couples & small group sessions as well as Separation, Custody & Divorce Mediation  in our Escondido office, by appointment. Sessions and classes are also held by Skype video.

Optimize Center is the home for all in-person Optimize Institute and ADR at Work programs & classes in communication, conflict management and collaboration for entrepreneurs, employees, corporate teams and organizations.

At the Optimize Center in Escondido you will find the counseling services, mediation services and classes: anger management classes, parenting classes, dream classes and much more.

Our space is comfortable and accessible, with easy walking access to numerous restaurants & business services.

We have lots to offer

Among our many classes are the “Ease” family of programs – low cost, group sessions to help ease the pain of anger, violence, divorce and parenting:

  • Ease Relationships – for help with resolving relationship problems & improving communication & intimacy
  • Ease Anger – Anger Management Classes held twice weekly in Escondido & online through Skype
  • Ease Parenting Now – Parenting Skills Classes – Separate classes for parents of children under eleven, for divorcing/divorced parents, and for parents of teens.
  • Ease Divorce – Counseling & Mediation to decide on next steps for your relationship. Mediation & document preparation for separation & divorce

We can help you make lasting changes to the way you interact in relationships, to improve your day-to-day life through better communication skills, effective anger management strategies and improved self-esteem & confidence.

Call or visit us today! 760.747.8686